This posting is of personal experience by the writer and is in no way certified by accreditation in the realms of psychology,psychiatry and does not profess to be better than any information provided by such entities which are paid to consult serious mental health and behavior issues.
A FEW WORDS FROM SINNER SAINT ON RELATIONSHIP MAINTENANCE!
Little boys need check in love, whilst the true adult has true love in check. If he had a busier life of bidness...he'd be tired too. The real question is did you have an adult dialogue regarding expectations & wlling to's? Time to renegotiate your contracts. (A RESPONSE TO A WOMAN WHO STATES HER CURRENT COURTSHIP ACCUSED HER OF CHEATING. SHE SAYS SHE WAS SLEEPING DUE TO FATIGUE
A WOMAN: SOMETIMES I JUST WANT TO BE HELD...NO SEX INTENDED.
You know I love you & the many reasons why. However. It's not that we don't (as men) want or even desire to be snuggly with our boo. It's timing. If I'm focused on a tedious task it cant be forgotten that I have a one track mind. I love it when you are up under me and hold me. Sumn about how I feel when you have your grasp on me. Ladies We Want to Cuddle too, but when the timing matches. Sometimes ya'll are just bored & want us to be bored too. How bout this. Let's make WEDNESDAYS the official Hugged Up Day of the week. Just you, me, and hot tea with nothing but our thoughts as we discuss in whispers, only statements of loves, likes, concerns, wishes, and willing to's. No questions allowed. If it is to be love then love to be....together in all we choose in the name of Love.
A WOMAN: why is it that we have to bored to snuggle/cuddle with you?
SINNER SAINT: Exactly what eye would like to know. Here's the truth in a nuttshell of crazy. Love is honesty, respect, and recognition, when forming, building, and then nurturing said relationship. Joining anything is like chess, the sacrificed move to win the game. The best way to win in relationship is to be on the same team opposed to different teams. Treat it like professional sports leagues. Draft your player based on the stats, potential to coach, and ability to play in all scenarios of the game. Coaching requires communication. Stats require observation of play. Once you both agree to terms of the contract play to win for the team. Right now the average female doesnt have a clue what eye said. Men seek a FRANCHISE player for his team. If you as women want love then stop complaining about money. If you as women want money then stop sacrificing in love and become a FRANCHISE player. Own your franchise. You are the best General Manager, Head Coach, Owner, and Player. #BuildTheRightTeam by communicating the truth at all times with the true athlete of your life
A WOMAN: I as a woman knows what your saying Dhat Mistah Show. Some of you men dont know when you have a franchise player......we may be the best head coach, general mngr etc but you all dont like to play by the rules especially if the rules dont benefit the male
SINNER SAINT: Your reference is to the hurt male or illraised male whom is ignorant of his own worth and value due to the gaps of leadership. Slavery still works. However, why give into love before verifying a mates credentials and resume? Its easily avoided by refusing to settle for less than your worth and standards. Sumn even I should have done at 19. Eventually ladies n Gents the only things that truly matter are the moments you experienced in life that show, know, or grow you in love. Telling rules and knowing rules still require a STABLE MIND. One which remains honest enough to keep on track throughout the entire game & final whistle. # u sexy beast u
A WOMAN: lmbo not sexy beast though!!! True it does require a stable mind but what happens after soooo long that you have tried and tried and the outcome is still the same......then what?
SINNER SAINT: You do what all teams do. Look at the film. Analyze. Recruit new players. Fire a few coaches. Then start it all over again in the new season. Know your direction. Playoffs to Championship. Keep in mind sometimes you get your trophies early. It's ok. Know that you played the game, because there are many who are not picked up NY other teams or good enough to play in the league to begin with. #OffSeasonCounts4Rehearsal&Training
A WOMAN: Im sooooo glad were friends. You always have been upfront since day 1 (13yrs of frisndship). Love how you put EVERYTHING into perspective.
I WANT TO INVITE EVERYONE TO POST THEIR QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS FOR EITHER OPINION,CURIOUSITY, NEED, OF HEALTH DEVELOPMENT IN RELATIONSHIP BUILDING AND MAINTENANCE.